Home Corporate Survivors & Healthcare Educators & Parents K–6 Students Teens Entertainment About Kristen Book Kristen
The Confidence Cowgirl

She Didn't Just Teach It.
She Lived Every Freeze.

Five programs. Four themes. Fourteen real stories. One woman who lived every single one of them — and came out the other side with a rope, a framework, and proof that brave is possible.

Book Kristen Find Your Brave Book
Her Story

She Lived Every Freeze.

Before she was The Confidence Cowgirl, she was the kid tallying up evidence of worthlessness, the dropout who taught herself in a library, and the woman who had to find the brave to send a letter that changed everything. Every keynote she delivers, she lived first.

The Isolation Freeze

"I Must Not Be Worth Much."

Leaning against a feeder, tallying evidence of worthlessness. Parents who visited five days a year. No school. The math felt undeniable — until Honeybee wrapped her head around Kristen's shoulders. In that one moment, the math broke.

The Thaw: When someone makes you feel wanted, it unlocks the belief that you're worth showing up for — and that changes everything.
The Circumstance Freeze

"My Story Is Already Written."

5th grade dropout. No school. No traditional path. Every circumstance said "not possible." Then the library. Then the GED. Then the Associates. Then BYU. Then the degree. Then the book. Then the stage.

The Thaw: Your circumstances describe where you started. They don't get to decide where you're going.
The Trauma Freeze

"Fear Has Hijacked the Controls."

A psychology class changed everything. Understanding the nervous system, understanding the Inner Outlaw — the fight-or-flight response that was running the show. Kristen partnered with her professor, co-wrote books, and built a framework for catching the outlaw before it takes over.

The Thaw: You can't think your way out of a fear response. But you can learn to recognize it, name it, and choose your next move anyway.
The Control Freeze

"I Can't Stand Up to This."

A lifetime of not being able to stand up to intimidation, belittling, and control. Then one moment of courage and standing her ground changed everything.

The Thaw: Every time you hold the line, you're building the version of yourself who holds it better next time.
Book Kristen
The Story That Started Everything

"Someone Saw Me First"

The Honeybee moment — when a Holstein dairy cow changed everything Kristen believed about her own worth.

Why Book Kristen

She's Not a Speaker
Who Shows Up With Slides.

01
She Lived It First

Every program she teaches, she lived. The isolation. The impostor syndrome. The trauma response. The bully. The jackrabbit. The bull corral. There is no borrowed content here — only earned stories.

02
Entertainment is the Strategy

She's a Trainer-Tainer. Trick rope. Live music. Whip cracking. Caricature. Improv. Ten years of theatrical train robbery. Every talent is a tool that opens the room so the message can land.

03
Everything is Custom

No generic keynote. Kristen custom-builds every experience from a modular library of 14 real stories — selecting the exact combination that fits your audience's specific freeze.

04
The Rope Makes it Real

The Lasso Leadership rope experience gives audiences a physical, felt understanding of brave leadership. Not to mention a good time. Nobody forgets the day they held a spinning rope and felt what clear intention actually does.

05
The Message Sticks

The B.R.A.V.E. framework gives audiences language they can use after she leaves. Weeks later, teams are still saying, "Let's Find our Brave. We've got this." That's the goal — not a good day. A changed default.

06
She's Easy to Work With

A decade of live performance means Kristen has handled every kind of room, every kind of crowd, and every kind of surprise. She is not a high-maintenance speaker. She shows up ready, handles what comes, and makes you look good.

The Trainer-Tainer

Entertainment is the Vehicle.

Every talent below is a tool. Custom-loaded for your audience, your goals, and your event.

♪
Singer-Songwriter

Original music including her signature song My Brave — written and performed live.

🎸
Guitar & Fiddle

Live performance — background ambiance or featured entertainment sets.

○
Trick Roper

15+ years spinning rope — and teaching what it means to lead with clarity.

★
Whip Cracker

A crowd-stopper that nobody forgets. Precision under pressure.

✏
Caricature Artist

Live portraits at events — every guest leaves with something unique and personal.

✦
Improv Actress

10 years of live improv — she can handle anything.

🚂
Train Host · 10 Yrs

A decade of crowd work, MC, storytelling, and live entertainment.

📖
Author & Illustrator

Find Your Brave — a children's book that became a brave conversation tool for every age.

Find Your Brave by Kristen J. Lloyd
Author & Illustrator

Find Your Brave

Written and illustrated by Kristen herself, Find Your Brave started as a children's book and became something much bigger — a brave conversation starter for families, classrooms, and organizations of every kind. The same message that grounds her keynotes lives on every page: bravery isn't born. It's practiced. One hard thing at a time.

For Families

A brave conversation starter between parents and children — opening the door to talking about fear, trying, and what brave actually looks like.

For Classrooms

A counselor and educator tool for introducing brave language into classrooms, libraries, and morning meetings — K through adult.

For Organizations

A signature corporate gift that reinforces Kristen's keynote message — sending teams home with something tangible they can share with their families.

Order Books for Your Event Bulk Pricing Available
For Events & Organizations

Bulk Book Orders

Want to give every attendee a copy of Find Your Brave at your event? Kristen offers bulk pricing for schools, organizations, and corporate events — and can personalize copies for your group. Books make a powerful keynote takeaway and a memorable gift that keeps the brave conversation going long after the event ends.

Call or Text
435-222-4870

Kristen personally handles all bulk orders. Call or text to discuss quantity, pricing, and personalization options for your event.

Email
Email Kristen

Email with your event details, anticipated attendance, and date — Kristen will send bulk pricing and availability within 24 hours.

Order Individual Copies on Amazon
Ready to Bring Kristen to Your Stage?

Let's Find Your Brave.

She doesn't show up with a slide deck and a recycled keynote. She shows up with a rope, a story, and a room full of people who leave different than they arrived.

Book Kristen Email Kristen
Call or Text: 435-222-4870
Email: Email Kristen